Ten questions to tell if you are a corporate Neanderthal

Workplace gender inequality and leadership bias discussion

Male executives, it is a good thing that you are re-examining your own behavior when it comes to sexual harassment. But you have only scratched the surface on gender issues.

Workplace Sexual Harassment: A Growing Concern

An NPR poll recently reported that 87% of Americans favor zero tolerance on sexual harassment in the workplace. With mind-numbing rapidity, new allegations appear. Organizations like Guess, the Humane Society, the UN, CBS, the American Red Cross, the Metropolitan Opera, the California State Legislature and the US House of Representatives have all been in the headlines for sexual harassment charges IN THE PAST WEEK. These are the high profile examples that are making the news. We never hear about the silent majority of cases, where harassers are in small companies, agriculture and the hospitality industry.

The Hidden Issue: Gender Inequality in Leadership

OK, Mr. Clean Conscience Executive, congratulations! You are not guilty of sexual harassment in the workplace, nor have you actively covered up somebody else’s misdeeds. But there is a wide gap between being a criminal and being a Neanderthal who misses the opportunity to fully motivate the 50% of your workforce who are women. I am not using the term “Neanderthal” to be flippant. I am indicating that if you fit the description, you are about to be made extinct. Sexual harassment makes a person feel unsafe in the workplace. Gender inequality makes a person feel unvalued. And it can be socially driven as well as financially. Harassment and inequality both cost your company dearly. So, let me ask you ten questions, Mr. Clean, based on real-life situations many of us have faced but have been too oblivious to act upon.

Enabling Sexual Harassment: Questions Leaders Must Ask

  • Are you as ignorant of competitive activity in the marketplace as you are of sexual harassment by peers in your company?
  • If you suspected sexual harassment by peers, would you address it as quickly as you would about suspicions of other activities that could damage your company?
  • Would you escalate your response if you thought you got a bullshit answer?

Fostering a Climate of Gender Inequality

  • Why did your new female Legal VP come in at the lower third of the salary band, while your new male VP of Finance makes more than his predecessor?
  • When you are interviewing two qualified people for a position, do you assume that the woman will have her career path interrupted by parental responsibilities, but the man will not?
  • Do you assume that the only woman on your executive team is also the only Myers Briggs “F?”
  • When you organize a fishing trip for your leadership team, have you invited the women who are team members?
  • Do you make women on your team feel like tokens by asking, “How do you feel about this, as a woman?” Would you ask an African American or Jewish executive the same question?
  • In meetings, are you ignoring a female manager’s comments or talking over them in a way you would not do with her male counterparts?
  • Are women attributing their strong ideas to male colleagues, in order to have you accept them?

Conclusion: Addressing Gender Inequality in the Workplace

Sexual harassment is an offense that deserves to be put in the spotlight. But the more subtle issue of workplace gender inequality will continue to lurk in the shadows.

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Even when sexual harassment is addressed, gender inequality continues through subtle biases, unequal pay, exclusion, and assumptions about roles, making employees feel undervalued and limiting their potential.

Leaders may unintentionally reinforce bias through hiring decisions, pay disparities, interruptions in meetings, or excluding women from informal networks and opportunities.

Sexual harassment creates an unsafe environment, while gender inequality creates an environment where individuals feel unvalued, overlooked, or unfairly treated.

Both harassment and inequality impact morale, performance, and company culture, and addressing them helps build a more inclusive, productive, and equitable workplace.

Leadership success framework for new executives

Congratulations, Newbie! You have just landed a corner office in a company. While you’ve been given your ID badge, nobody handed you the keys to leadership. You must earn them. There is an army of employees whom you have to convince to follow you. Mastery of these “6 C’s” will go a long way to get the buy-in you seek.

1. Communication: The Foundation of Effective Leadership

Kevin Cashman of KornFerry’s CEO & Executive Development group defines leadership as authentic self-expression that adds value. At the heart of leadership, then, is how you communicate with people. Talk to people and let them understand what you are trying to do. I worked with a CEO of a regional bank who enacted dozens of changes – closing kiosks in grocery stores, developing mobile aps and branches without tellers, etc. He got increasingly frustrated as people picked which initiatives to embrace and which to ignore. The employees didn’t make a connection between the initiatives, and they thought they could hold their breath until the next initiative was introduced.

Had the CEO explained the Big Idea that banking convenience was changing, and that the organization had to adjust to new realities, he may have had a more willing team. Instead, every few weeks a new initiative was announced, and another decision would be made to get on board or not. Talking is only part of the necessary communications skills. You have to listen, too. People need to feel heard. Their suggestions may not see the light of day; that is your prerogative. But having your team feel like their opinions were considered in decision-making will help you get them to support the actions you take.

2. Competence: Building Trust Through Expertise

Here’s a secret we can keep among ourselves: When you join a new company, you don’t know how to get anything done there. You’ll likely find that what led to success in your last job won’t work in the new environment. Maybe you’ll invest time to learn how things work. Maybe you won’t bother, relying instead on directing the people who do know how to get things done. Employees will cut you some slack on your ignorance of process, if you can compensate by demonstrating your competence in other areas that matter to them. Use your functional expertise to coach others. Use your management skills to achieve goals through other people.

3. Confidence: Inspiring Belief in Leadership

When people recognize your competence, they are likely to begin to feel confident about you. But it helps when you show a strong belief that you and the organization can accomplish what you set out to do. If you exude self-doubt, you’re in trouble.
My first Vice President role came when I moved to a new company in a new country. My brief was to fix the company’s flagship brand, Smirnoff, which had been declining by more than 10%. My fear of failure was low, because I didn’t think things could get much worse.

If only I had been more self-aware, maybe I would have worried more! I tried hard to temper my self-confidence by not appearing arrogant, a common pitfall for Americans with a Canadian audience. I’ll let former colleagues chime in on whether or not I succeeded. For many of us, self-confidence comes easily. Confidence in our team is another matter, especially before they have proven their mettle. A good strategy is to consider the Russian proverb often used by Ronald Reagan, “Trust, but verify.” Provide signs that you are giving your people breathing space while you get up to speed on their performance and capabilities.

4. Credibility: Delivering on Promises

Show your team that you mean what you say and that you are willing to follow up on your promises. In the early days, everybody is trying to assess whether or not they can believe you. Your promise is a verbal contract not to be taken lightly. A promise that you deliver engenders trust and loyalty. A broken promise can put you in a deep hole. Michael Watkins, in The First 90 Days, stresses “quick wins.” Those wins are seldom important on their own. But tactically, they say, “See, I told you we could do this!” Maybe more important than a quick win is its converse, avoiding the obligation that cannot be fulfilled. Be careful about publicly announcing objectives that are unrealistic, that you don’t have the resources to achieve or that are dependent on other people you can’t control.

5. Commitment: Demonstrating Long-Term Dedication

The people in your company have chosen to be there for longer than you have been. They are looking for signs that you are “all in,” that you will be there for the long run. Imagine that you commute from another time zone, spending four days a week at HQ, with no indication that your family will join you. What message are you sending? How permanent a decision have you made? If you choose a long-term commuting arrangement, consider ways to become involved in your organization’s community while you are there. As a leader, you are expected to contribute to activities outside of work. Without week night family commitments, there should be ample time to get involved.

6. Collaboration: Building Strong Organizational Relationships

You have to count on other people in order to succeed, and so do your people. Show them the value you place on the broader organization’s resources by visibly working closely with colleagues and by encouraging collaboration from your team.
Your willingness to work and play well with others will get noticed. It signals your recognition that you can’t solve problems by yourself and that you are a team player. It helps build strategic alliances within the organization. And it opens up the opportunity for reciprocation that can be critical for your team’s success.

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The 6 C’s are communication, competence, confidence, credibility, commitment, and collaboration, which together form the foundation of effective leadership and help new executives build trust, align teams, and drive performance in a new role.

Communication is essential because it helps leaders clearly explain their vision, align team efforts, reduce confusion, and ensure employees feel heard and valued, which ultimately strengthens trust and engagement.

Credibility is built by consistently delivering on promises, achieving early wins, demonstrating reliability, and avoiding unrealistic commitments that can damage trust and weaken leadership influence.

Collaboration matters because it enables leaders to work effectively with others, build strong relationships, leverage collective strengths, and create an environment where teamwork drives better outcomes and long-term success.

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